there is something in the word ‘pathetic’ as colloqueally used by the plurality which conveys a sense of being the exact opposite or a preference or ideal. idk the word for it though.
it has a sense of being unacceptable, deplorable, and possible contemptible. maybe it is a deplorations? repulsions?
“you represent the opposite of what you should”… hmmm
i think i’ll use deploration